Uprooted is the memoir of Ron Smith, a Black gay music minister who chronicles his struggle to balance his orientation and Christian faith. This ultimately ends with him leaving the church. The book, however, is not an indictment against the church. It is a journal of the author’s life from birth to the present, highlighting events that drove him to come to a decision he never thought he would have to make. He moves the reader beautifully through alternating moments of humor, despair, and finally, joy. His journey encourages us to allow no one or nothing to restrict us from living the full life we desire and deserve.
The path to self-discovery is laden with challenges and surprises. Friends and loved ones may fall away or become closer with each step toward the truth. In a revealing and reflective memoir, Ron Smith shares his journey from serving in Christian ministry to coming out at church. Through “Uprooted: A Gay Music Minister’s Journey Away from Church,” Smith highlights the challenges faced by people in the LGBTQIA+ community within religious communities. The memoir underscores the importance of self-acceptance and finding one's own path to spirituality.
Smith candidly writes about how the church played a dual role in his life. On one hand, it was a source of community, purpose, and spiritual guidance. On the other hand, it was a place of judgment, condemnation, and emotional pain, particularly regarding his sexuality. He relays how his coming out was received differently at Brooks and Highlands churches, demonstrating how human biases are central to how parishioners interpret Biblical teaching.
As a cisgender straight woman, I have known of friends and colleagues who have been harmed by the exclusionary stance of many Christian congregations. Progressive ministries that are accepting of all sexual orientations and gender identities are few and far between. In his memoir, Smith courageously shares his firsthand experiences with hypocrisy and judgment in the church. Smith was lauded at church for his leadership skills and ability to inspire others as a choir director and worship leader. Yet, despite his dedication and contributions, he was often judged and marginalized because of his sexual orientation. This led to feelings of alienation and disillusionment with organized religion.
Anyone who has experienced alienation in the church may find solace in Smith’s example of resiliency, adaptability, and staying true to oneself. While “Uprooted” revolves around the author’s complex and often painful relationship with Christianity, it highlights high points in his life journey, such as finding love and realizing self-acceptance.
Editor's Note: This review was originally published in Reedsy Discovery.